“Babe, I don’t even know this woman who keeps calling me on my cellphone.” 

He claims to have met this woman at a party and never had a conversation with her, yet she continues to call him on his cellphone. This woman is someone he has a casual relationship with, although he may have been seeing her for a while, he won't disclose this information to you. It's now up to you to uncover the truth. After all, as a woman, you wouldn't regularly call a stranger.

“Sure, I’ll still respect you if we sleep together on the first date.” 

When a man becomes aroused and desires to engage in sexual activity with you, he may resort to saying anything in order to achieve his goal. If you are comfortable with casual sexual encounters and do not experience regret afterwards, you may choose to sleep with him on the first date. However, if you desire him to contact you again, I strongly advise waiting for a longer period of time. Ultimately, it is not about earning his respect, but rather about respecting yourself after engaging in sexual activity with him.

“I’m leaving her for you, we’ll marry soon.” 

If you are involved with a man who is already committed, there is a higher likelihood that he will view you solely as a casual sexual partner. These men may believe that their lives or careers would become unstable if they were to marry you, so they continuously delay proposing and may even keep your relationship hidden.

“Baby, I didn’t text even once from last Sunday because I was dealing with some stuff.” 

Okay, what were you dealing with that you couldn't even spare a minute to text? Aliens! Well, you already know the answer - this guy is playing with your emotions and trying to fade out of your life without explaining anything. He may have two or three other women on the side and was misleading you as the only one.

“You’re too good for me.” 

Here are some words to end things with you without being mean. He doesn't want to crush your spirit, but he needs you to go. Experts say this approach may work for some women, but often just makes them want the guy even more.

“Of course sex wasn’t the only thing on my mind when I first met you. I am not that shallow.” 

Even when a man claims that sex is not on his mind, it usually is. If not, then why is he thinking about lunch plans during the day? When a man starts seeing a woman as more than just a friend, he typically only wants to engage with her sexually, either now or in the future. If you tell him that you want to wait until marriage to have sex, pay attention to how he acts towards you in the coming weeks.

“I know it’s late, we need not to do anything; I only want to lay down here with you.”  

If a man claims he's not trying to get into your pants, he probably is. This statement is just meant to put you at ease. When a man genuinely wants to talk, he will simply talk to you, ask you out for coffee, or invite you to lunch. But if he explicitly states that he only wants to sleep with you, he is definitely planning a sexual advance. Deep down, you already know this, but you may go along with it. Remember, never feel pressured.

“I love visiting your family.” 

He has met your family over ten times and claims he would love to visit them again. However, the truth is that he only says this because he knows how much you love them and want to stay close to them. After meeting your mother, who would either excessively spoil him or criticize his career choice, and your dear father, who would tease him for supporting the consistently losing IPL team, he doesn't actually feel comfortable seeing them again.

“It’s my boss wanting me to work on weekends and I will get late tonight…it won’t last too long, I promise”. 

After being in a relationship with this guy for over a year, you have a good understanding of his typical work schedule. However, recently his schedule has unexpectedly changed, making it difficult to predict. While he may be a dedicated worker, there is a 50% chance that he may cheat on you with other women, as his job does not require him to work on Friday nights or Saturdays. It would be wise to be vigilant and keep an eye on his actions.

“I was staring at her shorts because I think you have the same ones.” 

When you find your partner staring at another woman's legs or butt in a public place and they quickly make the excuse mentioned above, try looking at the woman yourself and complimenting her appearance and how well she carries herself. Your partner will likely agree. Now, you have caught them in the act and can confront them by saying, "Honey, you're busted because I don't own those shorts."